Simon got it

He really did, there was a hidden message in my post last night Simon picked up on it - he sent an email to enquire, you're right, top marks to you! For those not in the know Simon follows my blog anonymously, he doesn't have a blogger account but he's been with me on this journey for the past three or so months. He's a gay guy who lives in the gay metropolis that is Brighton and as a result we've never met; although he keeps threatening to come up and sample the gay scene in Manchester, maybe even meet up with my boyfriend and I (as friends and nothing else!) I just thought I'd get that in there for those who may have thought otherwise; although saying that his comments on my photos posted last night were very complimentary - I think my boyfriend does know he's very lucky. As I am very lucky to have him in my life, my pants and my bed too!

Anyway Simon keeps in regular contact via email and he's very supportive of me, my boyfriend and this blog; sharing the joy, grief and everything else that I care to share on here. I love getting feedback from readers either through the comments section or via email; so if you want to get in touch please do - my boyfriend and I are real nice guys. We'll try our best to reply to each email but it may take some time, we tend to be very busy when we're together.

Anyway back to the hidden message in last nights post - did anyone else get it? Well, fear not because I will tell all. The post was heavy on descriptive sex, perhaps the most descriptive I've ever been in a post; I tried my best not to push the boundaries too far but it was still heavy going. Sex is important in any relationship but I think more so in a gay relationship over a heterosexual one; there's a great deal of emphasis put upon both the quality and the amount of sex - the more the better. I'd be lying to you if I said anything else, gay men are notorious for random hook ups and meets just for sex; no romance, no hoping to find love, just no strings sex and lots of it! We know - my boyfriend and I have both done it on numerous occasions; that's how we first met - we weren't looking for a relationship, it was just meets for sex; truth be told the relationship just kind of crept up upon us as we spent more time together and spent that time doing things other than sex. Not that we're complaining, I guess it was meant to be, fate that brought us together, whatever we're both very happy.

Truths told again that kind of random sex hook up scenario is very cold and clinical - as long as you got laid by a guy that wasn't an absolute minger and the morning after was not an embarrassment it was a result. So I post a great deal of information about our sex life on here, more so than necessary, but it brings us both great joy and I like to share the joy in my life. But, and it always bothers me, people that know me only through this blog or cannot read between the lines may think that all the emphasis on the relationship of my boyfriend and I is based purely upon sex. That our relationship is shallow, meaningless and reliant purely upon sex to keep it alive - a longer version of a random hook up if you will. It's not...........

I ended the post last night with a pure moment of humanity, so subtle that most of you may have missed it; I told you about how I love my boyfriends eyes. Above everything else that I wrote about, the shaving, the foreplay and the sex it was his eyes that stood out. It's more than a physical relationship and more than sex; it's emotional, spiritual and romantic. It's his beauty both inside and out; both physically and mentally. It's all there in his eyes - they're windows into his soul, they shine so bright and so beautifully. That was my hidden message, I'm glad at least one person picked up on it and I'm glad that it was understood correctly; thanks xxx.