Porn

My boyfriend and I both enjoy watching porn every now and then; it's nothing to be ashamed of and I imagine a fair few couples do exactly the same. There is a problem with gay porn though which we both agree on, you see if you've ever watched any it's very hedonistic. It's portrayed as a testosterone fuelled shag-fest, without emotion or romance - just two guys shagging the living daylight out of each other. It focuses solely on the act of sex and that act is more often than not extremely hard, fast and dirty without a care for anyone involved. It's a complete turn-off even for us and nothing at all like it is in real life between two guys who fancy each other. 

I know gay-boys and the act of gay sex are often thought of in such hedonistic terms as those I've described above. Perhaps because sometimes, it is true, the gay scene can be quite soulless - guys just looking for a one night stand, a quick shag without any commitment; I know....... 

Perhaps also because straight people do not understand, they empathise but do not truly understand, the fact that a guy can fancy another guy - it's quite normal if you're gay; and they could never envisage the act of sex between two guys or if they can it's been obtained through hearsay or scare mongering or gay porn. 

Now, I'm fully aware that friends that know me personally or regular readers of this blog may think my boyfriend and I fit into this hedonistic niche. At times I do spend a great deal of time either talking or blogging about our sex life, but it's not all we ever think about or do. To be honest it is an unfair reflection, we do enjoy sex and we have sex quite often; it's part of a healthy relationship and it brings us great joy. Hence I cannot contain myself from rejoicing this fact with the world; but it's not the be all and end all of our relationship - take this weekend for example, we just did regular things like anyone else would do. 

So to find a decent, realistic gay porn movie is quite a task, for those, like us, who enjoy a bit of emotional feeling with their sex. Hence my surprise when my boyfriend called me from cleaning up in the kitchen after tea to check this out. Talking of tea, we've just had the best tea ever - Steak, mushroom and garlic mayonnaise muffins with chips made by the same fair hands that are writing to you know. Just awesome, how the steak and mushrooms go so well together with the garlic mayonnaise, in fact we've eaten like kings today. We had a full English breakfast to start the day - bacon, sausage, egg, mushrooms and toast; we had a Sunday roast for lunch whilst we were out followed by hot chocolate fudge cake and ice cream for desert and now this for tea. It must be all that Salford Quays air and the walking that made us hungry today, boy do we have good appetites! 

I'm digressing aren't I? Back to the chase my boyfriend calls me to check this out - a clip of a gay porn movie he's found on the internet. Now I've posted the clip below but do not worry it does not contain any scenes of sex nor penises, nothing! If you don't want to click on the play button that's fine, it's your prerogative. But it is absolutely fantastic, so real, so emotional and so erotic - it's exactly how a gay relationship is, it reminds us so much of us. Just two guys making out on a bed, gently kissing and caressing each other, it would not surprise if they are real life boyfriends it's so sweet. Which would be a shame because we both fancy the pants off the guy on the bottom, gosh he's so HOT! (Well we would if we were single!)

That's exactly what gay porn should be about, to act out your fantasies and to reflect your own desires. There are other clips after this one but I won't post them because it does start to get down and dirty; again in a very real and emotional way but still. The guy on top has the weirdest looking penis I've ever seen by the way - it's like real thin at the bottom and real fat at the top - quite bizarre.