I don't know why I acted in this manner and it does not suit me; it is not me normally. I even acted in this manner to my best girlfriend; who is one of the last people in my life that I would want to knowingly upset. I'm so very sorry to you in particular; I pray you did not take any of my actions personally. Restraint, I know, I need to learn it.
So here's some words of advice from someone very close who knows me better than I do and knows how to handle such situations. He posted this in a comment on my blog last night but it deserves a proper post; because it is the best way to let me know I'm taking things too far and may just help me to stop ruining friendships.
for anyone reading this who works with him heres some advice to deal with him when hes in one of these moods. this works trust me i know. i have to put up with it each time we go out. its a wonder hes still alive.
if his humour gets too much you have to tell him in no uncertain terms. STOP YOU ARE TAKING IT TOO FAR usually works. he does not understand any other terms. but try and not upset him with abusive language as then he takes it out on me by not speaking. thanks lol.
if his humour gets too much you have to tell him in no uncertain terms. STOP YOU ARE TAKING IT TOO FAR usually works. he does not understand any other terms. but try and not upset him with abusive language as then he takes it out on me by not speaking. thanks lol.


here we go again. how many times do you need to be told.............
ReplyDeletelisten to what i said babes.
anyway i hope he did not cause any upset today please follow the instructions above if he does. he does not mean it but i know he goes too far.
girlfriend i have spoken to him tonight and told him to apologise personally let me know if he doesnt.
can someone remind me again why i love him. xxxxxx
I apologised to our girlfriend today, why do I say our girlfriend by the way? Have you ever met her? You've probably been having secret rendezvous whilst I'm hard at work. No wonder I haven't seen you in coming on a week and counting. It's all making sense now!
ReplyDeleteAnyway we are still friends which is good news, I love her in a non-sexual kind of way, unlike you! I say we are still friends, perhaps it should be we were friends now that I've written this comment. It's just a joke boys and girls I do not mean to cause offence.
Thanks for commenting so late on babes I walked right into it again this morning, I had absolutely no idea, but that's why you do it right?
Can I be the one to remind you why you love me?
xxxxxx
no offence taken babes its a good job you have forgiving friends at times friends that know you. is this a better time to post my comment. ok i did comment late last night knowing that you were probably in bed shame i don't see the look on your face when you found out. :-)
ReplyDeleteyou can remind me why i love you over the weekend xxxxxxxxxx