Do I look gay?

I took my time in getting ready tonight, new funky trainers, new dark indigo jeans and t-shirt. It took all of five minutes. Now I thought they coordinated kind of well but I've just been informed I look gay! Seriously, and these words have come from a guy who should know. Just gutted, you know; shattered my self confidence. Here I am going out with a guy on a Saturday night and I've got to worry about my clothes making me look gay. I mean like I care, like it's the first thing I should worry over, like people may not hazard a guess anyway. It's the t-shirt that's causing the concern but I'm not changing it, I like it. Perhaps it is a bit in your face, but you know, you just know.....